I would do anything for love...but I won't do that!

Bridget Jones is my hero. I have seen that movie roughly a trillion times; it is my visual comfort food. Whenever I’m having one of those mean-red sort of days where I just want to go fetal on my bed and swaddle myself tighter than a burrito’s wedgy in down comforter snuggliness, I pop a little BJD into the DVD and all becomes good in the hood again. BJD does for the soul what mac ’n’ cheese does for the taste buds. Gobs of warm, gooey contentment.

I now pretty much know the whole movie by heart, and so have adopted several of Miss Jones’ pearls of wisdom into my mantra. Namely the one about not wanting to die fat and alone and end up half eaten by wild dogs. Or in my case, the giant R.O.U.S.’s that reside behind my apartment.

With that said, I agreed to go out with this guy that I met while I was living the charmed homeless life in a dank, hole-in-the-wall hostel during my first week in San Diego.

My encounter with said guy occurred on the last night that I spent at the hostel. I had gone out for one last hostel hurrah with some of the new friends that I had made to a local dive bar called the Jewel Box, which is where I became acquainted with David.

Here's a little mood setting for ya - if the Jewel Box were personified, it would have an awesomely bad singing career churning out such melodious gems as Two Out of Three Ain’t Bad and In the Land of the Pig, the Butcher is King. And oh yes, it would be Meat Loaf.

I wasn’t all that interested in David but I’m hardly ever interested in the guys that I meet. Dating was spoiled for me a couple of years ago when I met one of those rare, perfectly perfect, unicorn, albeit unattainable guys. And now my dating standards are higher than Bob Marley at an all-you-can-eat brownie buffet in Amsterdam.

To combat this, I came up with the following plan - I will agree to go out with a guy that I’m not particularly interested in as long as I do not find him vile - as long as I at least nothing him, I will agree to see him again. My reasoning being that a lack of on the spot sparks does not necessarily mean that lightning won’t strike later on.

So for our lightning prelude, David took me to the Surf Club for drinks and a steak dinner. So far so good. Boozy McGee here loves her beef and alcohol.

Slight downside however. The Surf Club makes you cook your own food. Call me old-fashioned…or a lazy arse, but when I go out to eat, I want the restaurant to do the meal prep for me. Plus, I ain't no Rachel Ray, so the chances are great that my meal will end up tasting like a tire, and then I'll have no one to blame but myself.

Anyhoos, all in all things were cruising along smoothly. Even for Libido, who decided to call shotgun halfway through dinner.

That was, however, until David brought up how much he loves sunflower paintings and that he used to sing in an a cappella group.

Umm...is it wrong to want a man plate that doesn't come with a side of girly fries? This totally let the air out of my tires leaving stymied Libido high and dry thumbing for a ride back to Collin-Farrellville.

Meh, I tried.